> There's a woman I've had my heart set on for over three years. Tonight I learned she's gone from me forever.

Is this a Roy in Cincy thing about Chloe again?

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I won't go into the details, but I fell for her over time.  She was nice to me like no other woman has been to me when I was at my worst.  Then she saw me rebound, back up to the person I really am.  She was thrilled for me, but by then she had a boyfriend.

She put aside all that was wrong with me at my lowest and saw my true spirit.  She told me how awesome I was when even fat chicks wouldn't talk at me.  Now I'm at the top of my world but I feel worse than ever since I'll never see her again.

Maybe that was her purpose.  She gave me hope and put me where I am now.  Without the prospect of getting with her, I'd still be down in the same depths, without hope, without anything to seek, without anything.

I think that was her role in my life, whether or not she meant it to happen that way.  She made me a better man, and now I have better options.  But the view looking up was very bright.  The view now looking down is very dark, since I know the slope is steep.

You're not going to like what I'm going to write, but it has to be said:

Grow up.

She was NOT there to make you better, she was there, to support you while you made yourself better. That's what FRIENDS do.

You "had your heart set on her"? What the fuq does that even mean? Oh, yeah, it's useless psycholoveshytbabble, stemming from a crush you didn't have the balls to act on.

If she didn't make herself available to you from the start, that should have been your first big clue.

So, now what?

Get the fuq off the pity pot.
Grow up.
Man up.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

I take it, "gone forever" means she got married. Not to you. You know what> You never had a shot in the first place, you confused love for compassion and friendship.

Yup, you fuqed up.

Go to her wedding, congratulate her after, and MEAN it. Maybe you can still be friends, but you have a lot of growing the fuq up to do.

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No, you fool. She chose not to be with you, she didn't want to. Stop make believing she did you some sort of favor.

Nothing beats a woman you want having sex with you. NOTHING. And nothing was stopping that from happening but her. She wasted your time, and took your energy and gave it away to another. If you had a good vibe with her, she should have.

The only lesson here it to cut off attention to women that let you down. Period.

Or, you know, she really cared as a friend, and never saw him in a sexual or romantic way.

It does happen. I have 3 women in my life like that, they were there for me in my darkest days, and they're friends for life, and I never even casually imagine fuqing them, they're like sisters to me.

Stop thinking everything is sexual, little boy.

To follow up on my *:

* I don't buy the "alpha" and "beta" thing. To me, there are shades of grey, it's how comfortable you are with dating, women, relationships, and sex. It's the difference between having your shyt together, and not, or more accurately, the difference between a man, and a boy.

"trev" and "alpha" can be useful labels, but not if "Alpha" is used with the definition bitter losers and feminists have attached to it, that being an "alpha" is being a rude, Bluto type jerk, who beats women and cheats and is an asshole 24/7. Yes, guys like that exist, but they're NOT "alphas", they're immature boys pretending to be a man - they're Trevs in Alpha clothing.

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Or, you know, she really cared as a friend, and never saw him in a sexual or romantic way.

It does happen. I have 3 women in my life like that, they were there for me in my darkest days, and they're friends for life, and I never even casually imagine fuqing them, they're like sisters to me.

Stop thinking everything is sexual, little boy.

lol you're woman or the op, or just some sap.

Only a liar would suggest they do not have sexual thoughts about female friends. It is abnormal not to.

Women want a shoulder to cry on and supporting words, men want sexual comfort. When they take the former and deny the later, it's time to move on.

Nothing worse than some fool woman getting love, caring, supporting words from you and then giving some mouth breather her sex. Somewhere along the way women lost all sense of honor and fairness in dating.


Fuq them, and you and everyone.

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To follow up on my *:

* I don't buy the "alpha" and "beta" thing. To me, there are shades of grey, it's how comfortable you are with dating, women, relationships, and sex. It's the difference between having your shyt together, and not, or more accurately, the difference between a man, and a boy.

"trev" and "alpha" can be useful labels, but not if "Alpha" is used with the definition bitter losers and feminists have attached to it, that being an "alpha" is being a rude, Bluto type jerk, who beats women and cheats and is an asshole 24/7. Yes, guys like that exist, but they're NOT "alphas", they're immature boys pretending to be a man - they're Trevs in Alpha clothing.

As you demonstrate, being an alpha is indeed being an egotistical manchild who equates love and success with the quantity of vaginas you penetrate. I note that on some subliminal level you must be aware of the patheticness of your views, otherwise you would not froth so angrily at the trevs. Maybe you should try looking at a woman as a person for once instead of merely as a collection of three orifices. You will be surprised at how much better life is when you have a meaningful relationship with someone.

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This kind of shyt never happens to me any more since I learned the Rules of the Game.  Rule #1 is to never come at a girl from a position of need. 

I used to be just like you:  Relentlessly pining for some girl and practically begging her to be with me.  But then I saw the light.  I changed.  Now I juggle four different girls with whom I fuq whenever I feel like it.  Interestingly, these four were born in each decade from the '60's to the '90's....and before you retards accuse me of pedophilia, here are the years of their births:  1969, 1977, 1984, and 1990. 

Since I have been fuqing these four I have been approached by more women than I can remember. Occasionally I bang some hottie just for the hell of it, but not because I need to.  In fact, a couple of nights ago I fuqed a friend's cute sister who told me that she has fantasized about me for over a year.  She's practically married to her boyfriend, so nothing will come of it, but it's still a nice feeling to pop this kind of pussy from time to time.

This is the sort of stuff that will happen to you as soon as you change your frame.  Remember:  You are the prize.  Now her.  Now get out there and give some woman an orgasm that will leave her shaking like a dog trying to shyt out a raspberry seed.

Translation: I am a beta sock fuqing loser like the OP. the only difference is I make up better fantasies.

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Translation: I am a beta sock fuqing loser like the OP. the only difference is I make up better fantasies.

Rule #1 of being a beta is to spend all of your time being envious of those men who possess the charisma that you lack.

Jesus, this post generated a tremendously large word count.  Must be lotsa betas here.

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I won't go into the details, but I fell for her over time.  She was nice to me like no other woman has been to me when I was at my worst.  Then she saw me rebound, back up to the person I really am.  She was thrilled for me, but by then she had a boyfriend.

She put aside all that was wrong with me at my lowest and saw my true spirit.  She told me how awesome I was when even fat chicks wouldn't talk at me.  Now I'm at the top of my world but I feel worse than ever since I'll never see her again.

Maybe that was her purpose.  She gave me hope and put me where I am now.  Without the prospect of getting with her, I'd still be down in the same depths, without hope, without anything to seek, without anything.

I think that was her role in my life, whether or not she meant it to happen that way.  She made me a better man, and now I have better options.  But the view looking up was very bright.  The view now looking down is very dark, since I know the slope is steep.

and now she's a slave to BBC. worships it like it invented oxygen. just can't get enough.
happier?

Thread delivers.

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Women seem to be breaking up 99% of relationships in the last few years.

Of the marriages I have witnessed fail over the past few years, in several cases the woman just drifted away, sometimes didn't even bother coming up with a reason.

Bored? Take the kids and fuq off. He doesn't need to have done anything wrong, and society will pat you on the back and tell you you could do so much better.

There were others, though.
Announce after 4 kids you're actually a lesbian and move in with a Hufty lookalike.
Drive your husband to the drink through being a screeching qunt 24/7, then leave him because he's a depressed alcoholic.

Mine recently announced she has 'found her peace' without me, even though the main source of mutual stress was her endless fuqing pointless nagging and ingratitude inexorably forcing me to the point I hated her guts over a period of ten years or so.

The closest thing to consequences the bitches understand these days is the sudden lack of money once the man has been successfully driven out. And that's his fault too, obviously, even if he's going to be living in a rented bedsit for the rest of his natural life.

Bring the Day of the Radiator.