> There's a woman I've had my heart set on for over three years. Tonight I learned she's gone from me forever.

A note to all betas: unless you are creating sexual friction from the get-go (and not having the police called on you for it) you are by definition NEVER going to "get" that woman. You are friend zoned, and nothing but an emotional tampon.

Emotional tampon is likely the best you can do with most women (since you are a beta, natch) but pretending that you have a shot doesn't make it so,  and YOU are 169% to blame for getting wrapped up in that.

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LMAO at you pathetic betas who let yourselves get that emotional

Ok, so thats three that havnt got a good women in their life, and olg is gay.

Wake me when you howling trevs have the first clue about women from your sheltered "unemotional" existences. Must be cool to never experience life's joys or sorrows.

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Fuq that. When I want a woman I want her, not almost.

Today I realized a woman I wanted to be with just doesn't want me. I had believed it was my situation, and was resenting that she would pass me up for that. Then it hit me, she just didn't want me.

You missed the point.  An incredibly hot chick told me how cool I am when I was at my worst.  She looked past my appearance and my situation at the time because she found a deep intellectual connection with me.  That inspired me to change everything that was wrong in my life, which I did.  She noticed it, and as I went about it, she kept telling me how well I was doing, which is the main reason why I kept going.

Now I am in a much better place, but she has found someone else in the meantime.  But if it were not for that initial motivation that she gave me, I would never have made the effort.  I am far better off now, even though I feel like shyt since I learned today I'll never see her again, or at least not soon.

It was like getting the wind knocked out of me today.  Someone just kicked me in the chest when I wasn't looking and then I doubled over and gasped for a few minutes.  But when I got up, and caught my breath, I realized I'm in a much better state for knowing her.

Her lesson to me was to pull me back from the brink and make me face the brink again, just from further away.

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You missed the point.  An incredibly hot chick told me how cool I am when I was at my worst.  She looked past my appearance and my situation at the time because she found a deep intellectual connection with me.  That inspired me to change everything that was wrong in my life, which I did.  She noticed it, and as I went about it, she kept telling me how well I was doing, which is the main reason why I kept going.

Now I am in a much better place, but she has found someone else in the meantime.  But if it were not for that initial motivation that she gave me, I would never have made the effort.  I am far better off now, even though I feel like shyt since I learned today I'll never see her again, or at least not soon.

It was like getting the wind knocked out of me today.  Someone just kicked me in the chest when I wasn't looking and then I doubled over and gasped for a few minutes.  But when I got up, and caught my breath, I realized I'm in a much better state for knowing her.

Her lesson to me was to pull me back from the brink and make me face the brink again, just from further away.

This thread has the feel of someone cutting and pasting from elsewhere... just sayin...

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You missed the point.  An incredibly hot chick told me how cool I am when I was at my worst.  She looked past my appearance and my situation at the time because she found a deep intellectual connection with me.  That inspired me to change everything that was wrong in my life, which I did.  She noticed it, and as I went about it, she kept telling me how well I was doing, which is the main reason why I kept going.

Now I am in a much better place, but she has found someone else in the meantime.  But if it were not for that initial motivation that she gave me, I would never have made the effort.  I am far better off now, even though I feel like shyt since I learned today I'll never see her again, or at least not soon.

It was like getting the wind knocked out of me today.  Someone just kicked me in the chest when I wasn't looking and then I doubled over and gasped for a few minutes.  But when I got up, and caught my breath, I realized I'm in a much better state for knowing her.

Her lesson to me was to pull me back from the brink and make me face the brink again, just from further away.

It's all very nice you telling Camp Idiot this, but have you told HER this?

She might have looked at you in a different light had you told her that she was a big motivation in making you what you are today.

You haven't come out and said it, but I infer that she's getting married. Tell her that you are happy for her and that you consider it a debt of honor to be there for her if she needs a friendly male ear to talk to, and then back off and let her make of her life what she can while you make of YOUR life what you can.

That's what an Alpha would do.

I have women I knew decades ago who remember that I was a nice guy to them and offered support when they needed it,(yeah...I know...totally out of character for me), and as we are all at the age when marriages are starting to break up, that is a fertile field to plow if my own marriage goes "kaput".


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This kind of shyt never happens to me any more since I learned the Rules of the Game.  Rule #1 is to never come at a girl from a position of need. 

I used to be just like you:  Relentlessly pining for some girl and practically begging her to be with me.  But then I saw the light.  I changed.  Now I juggle four different girls with whom I fuq whenever I feel like it.  Interestingly, these four were born in each decade from the '60's to the '90's....and before you retards accuse me of pedophilia, here are the years of their births:  1969, 1977, 1984, and 1990. 

Since I have been fuqing these four I have been approached by more women than I can remember. Occasionally I bang some hottie just for the hell of it, but not because I need to.  In fact, a couple of nights ago I fuqed a friend's cute sister who told me that she has fantasized about me for over a year.  She's practically married to her boyfriend, so nothing will come of it, but it's still a nice feeling to pop this kind of pussy from time to time.

This is the sort of stuff that will happen to you as soon as you change your frame.  Remember:  You are the prize.  Now her.  Now get out there and give some woman an orgasm that will leave her shaking like a dog trying to shyt out a raspberry seed.

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This kind of shyt never happens to me any more since I learned the Rules of the Game.  Rule #1 is to never come at a girl from a position of need. 

I used to be just like you:  Relentlessly pining for some girl and practically begging her to be with me.  But then I saw the light.  I changed.  Now I juggle four different girls with whom I fuq whenever I feel like it.  Interestingly, these four were born in each decade from the '60's to the '90's....and before you retards accuse me of pedophilia, here are the years of their births:  1969, 1977, 1984, and 1990. 

Since I have been fuqing these four I have been approached by more women than I can remember. Occasionally I bang some hottie just for the hell of it, but not because I need to.  In fact, a couple of nights ago I fuqed a friend's cute sister who told me that she has fantasized about me for over a year.  She's practically married to her boyfriend, so nothing will come of it, but it's still a nice feeling to pop this kind of pussy from time to time.

This is the sort of stuff that will happen to you as soon as you change your frame.  Remember:  You are the prize.  Now her.  Now get out there and give some woman an orgasm that will leave her shaking like a dog trying to shyt out a raspberry seed.

Some of us actually have standards, you know.

I fuq 10 year olds and 80 year olds!
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<-- Camp Idiot "alpha"

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Actually, it's 42-year-olds and 21-year-olds, you math-addled retard.

Nevertheless, you clearly equate being "alpha" with getting a variety of vaginas. However, you will never have a meaningful relationship with a woman because you treat them like walking fleshlights. The betas you scorn are your superior in this respect. It may take them longer to touch vagina, but when they do, it will be a vagina of high quality that they can spend the rest of their lives with.

You sir, do not even realize how badly you self-pwn.

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...give some woman an orgasm that will leave her shaking like a dog trying to shyt out a raspberry seed.

A raspberry seed?
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Yeah, themb fuqers just don't wanna pass!
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Nevertheless, you clearly equate being "alpha" with getting a variety of vaginas. However, you will never have a meaningful relationship with a woman because you treat them like walking fleshlights. The betas you scorn are your superior in this respect. It may take them longer to touch vagina, but when they do, it will be a vagina of high quality that they can spend the rest of their lives with.

You sir, do not even realize how badly you self-pwn.

Getting no pussy until some old hag marries me for my money and throws me a pity fuq once a year means that women love me!
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Did she ever exist to you? Or did you use her as an emotional backboard for your numerous commitment issues till she got fed up with her non existence and sought out comfort? Be honest. You wanted to keep your options open and keep her on the back burner just in case you couldn't land a Ten. No good woman, once she realizes that she's being played, will settle for that. If that's how you want to treat women, you needed to choose the desperate. Not all less-than-perfect women are desperate. If they were, they would have married long ago. What you don't know about women would fill the ocean.