> So there is a small chance I might be involved in a shootout this weekend

Conduct your transaction at the police station.

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Conduct your transaction at the police station.

My goal is just to get the forms signed.  I'm afraid the guy is spooked out already about me being with the police.  I think your way is probably safer but it is way more likely to scare the guy.  Something is up with him because a normal person wouldn't ghost someone like he did.  He claimed it was an accident and I let it be like that to let him save face but I can tell something is up with him.

Preliminary checks suggest it is his car and it is not stolen or anything.  My relative has possession of the car.  They just can't legally transfer it yet and get the title in their name without him signing the forms.  If he refuses to cooperate there is a way to do it but it is a real PITA and costs more cash and time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=njtfNPB-YKg

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Can you hire a process server? I don't know how that sort of thing works.

Alternatively mail the forrm via certified letter with a return envelope.

Use that people look up site to see if he's a con. Or google search the name and "arrested".

I know a lot about him already.  No criminal record that I can see but he has only been in this country for a bout three years.  I have all of his family here and in his source country.  That is probably why he got back to me ASAP because I said in the message that I hope I have the right number and that he didn't change numbers because if I can't get a hold of him I will probably have to start contacting family because of the amount of money involved.  So basically I forced him to do something...

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I know a lot about him already.  No criminal record that I can see but he has only been in this country for a bout three years.  I have all of his family here and in his source country.  That is probably why he got back to me ASAP because I said in the message that I hope I have the right number and that he didn't change numbers because if I can't get a hold of him I will probably have to start contacting family because of the amount of money involved.  So basically I forced him to do something...

Keep the Zantetsuken at hand!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Goemon_Ishikawa_XIII

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I'm also twice the guy's size but still..



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He's not gonna fuq you, poxbag.

Maybe he is. 

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Relative bought a car from a guy on Facebook.  Several thousands of dollars in cash. The guy didn't really give them all the documents they needed to transfer the title though it initially appeared that way to them.  Since it is an electronic title it is more involved (Florida bullshyt).  Relative tried to contact them multiple times but the guy ghosted them.

After three weeks of ghosting them, I offered to try to reach out to him on their behalf.  Called the guy and left a message- polite yet firm that he was paid $X,000 and now he has to finish the ownership transfer or it is fraud.  Guy called me back almost immediately apologizing.  Set up a time and date to meet the guy 200 miles away but the guy is still flakey and still hasn't given me the exact place.  Something is up with him.  So I'm definitely bringing my gun and meeting him alone.

All I need is for the guy to sign two forms.  But there is a chance the guy is crazy or something... we will see.  Bad vibes, bad vibes....

The things I do for young relatives.

Stupidity is genetic.

Based solely on what you have said here you are planning on doing something incredibly stupid - ironic given your comments on Kyle Rittenhouse looking for trouble.

At the very least you should have someone parked a block away listening over a phone call so they can summon police when they hear gunshots

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I'm also twice the guy's size but still one quarter his penis length...

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Based solely on what you have said here you are planning on doing something incredibly stupid - ironic given your comments on Kyle Rittenhouse looking for trouble.

At the very least you should have someone parked a block away listening over a phone call so they can summon police when they hear gunshots

This was my comment earlier while I was not logged in.

Just want to reiterate that you are doing a very foolish thing and should think hard about taking a different approach.

I say this purely in relation to your safety - I could not give a shyt if one more dirtbag gets removed from the earth.